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Picket Fence Post: Mom, What's Sex?
Mon, 06/21/2010 - 11:57amI took a deep breath and resigned myself to a prolonged, uncomfortable scene. “OK, do you really want to know what it is?” I asked them both. When they replied in the affirmative, I proceeded, using the anatomically correct words and phrases to describe human reproduction (though I did tell my son that for specifics on male mechanics, he had to talk to his father . . . when he got back from Canada). They looked aghast. “You and Dad did that? . . . More than once? Eww!”
Picket Fence Post: Bullies & Otherwise Bad Behavior
Mon, 05/31/2010 - 9:19pmMy 7-Year Performance Review
Thu, 05/06/2010 - 2:33pmPicket Fence Post: ABC's "Lost" Parents - There's no way, I'm as bad as them
Tue, 04/27/2010 - 3:32pmLost, the ABC drama about a mysterious island, which ends its wild six-year run this month, has provided its rabid fans with much to ponder during its tenure. While Lost devotees may debate its overarching story line – good vs. evil, destiny vs. free will, whether redemption is possible – one thing’s for certain: The consequences of bad parenting are long lasting, especially in this saga.
Ages & Stages: The Pull of Commitments
Wed, 03/31/2010 - 2:23pm As the kids have gotten older, our family vacations have become more complicated. Sports schedules bleed into vacations, and we find ourselves having to make choices between these commitments and our time together as a family.
Picket Fence Post: Fired as the Family DJ
Mon, 03/29/2010 - 1:44pmSmooth talking disk jockeys, or on air personalities as they’re called (some of them older than me), who reside on the far end of the FM dial are now telling my kids what’s hot. Ryan Seacrest’s recommendations about what’s hip are sacrosanct while I’m a mildly annoying fogey who my 8-year-old recently informed dances like “an old lady.”
When Your Friend Has a Baby: A Non-Mom's Perspective
Tue, 03/09/2010 - 12:18pmSuddenly calling your friend is wracked with the same feelings you once had in high school about a boy you liked. Should I call? Should I wait until later? What if they’re home and I wake them? If I get the machine, should I leave a message?
Picket Fence Post: Dog in the House
Thu, 02/25/2010 - 3:46pmIt’s been nearly seven months since our family adopted “Max.” Little did I realize that, by adding a dog to our family, which includes twin 11-year-olds and an 8-year-old, it was akin to bringing a teething, rampaging baby into our home.
Picket Fence Post: Doing it all means living with the imperfect
Mon, 01/25/2010 - 12:47pm
Whenever I pick up a new book about work and moms, I mentally prep myself for a chastising lecture. Could journalist Mika Brzezinski's new book "All Things at Once," be any different? I was pleasantly surprised.
Picket Fence Post: My Anti-Resolution List
Fri, 01/01/2010 - 9:00amAround this time of year, people make all kinds of vows to do things differently now that we’re in a new calendar year. Here’s where this article can come in handy. I can provide you with alternatives to those “healthier” resolution lists you’ve likely been seeing, at least when it comes to parenting.
Ages & Stages: For the Love of Books
Tue, 12/22/2009 - 3:27pmA book demands attention. It requires that you sit down with it, that you feel the weight of it in your lap, or acknowledge its presence in front of you. A book has a way of saying, Slow down and enjoy me. Use me to relax. Breathe me in. Remember. Remember when you knew how to be quiet and alone with yourself.
Picket Fence Post: My Christmas Story, Courtesy of Hollywood
Tue, 12/01/2009 - 9:00amWatching the flawed and funny Parker family would help me place my family’s holiday foibles into a different context, one far removed from the one peddled by all forms of media everywhere advising me, the mom, how to create perfect holiday memories with my kids -- something which I never seemed to be quite able to achieve..
Father at Large: As seen on TV: But wait, there’s more!
Tue, 11/24/2009 - 5:04amAs any experienced parent will tell you, the longer you can keep your kids watching PBS, the better. Because even though Barney the Dinosaur may fill you with an inexplicable rage not unlike what an African honey badger must feel right before it crushes a puff adder’s head in its jaws, your toddlers love him and his educational friends. But more importantly: no commercials.
Ages & Stages: Mirror, Mirror
Tue, 10/27/2009 - 3:16pmMy son just started high school and it seems to be going really well for him. I don’t know what I expected, all the years leading up to this point, certainly nothing positive, and I’m not sure why. Perhaps it’s my perception of my own high school years. Perhaps it’s the big build up in my head about my little boy growing older. Perhaps it’s a combination of both.
Picket Fence Post: The End of the World - Should my kids really be seeing this?
Tue, 10/27/2009 - 3:01pmIt wasn’t the lethal use of magic in a PG movie about which I should’ve been concerned. During a 1:10 p.m. showing of a kids’ film on a weekday in July, I didn’t expect that the previews would be, in a word, terrifying, at least from a 10-year-old’s point of view.
Ages & Stages: The Psychic
Tue, 09/29/2009 - 9:19pmI tried not to look too skeptical. She had kind eyes, bright and blue, with a star of creases fanning out to the sides. And she was certainly no nutcase. In fact, just by speaking with her for a few minutes, I liked her.
Picket Fence Post: Aren't Witches Supposed to be Scary?
Tue, 09/29/2009 - 3:34pm Sure, there were superhero costumes for girls too, only they included mini-skirts and go-go boots. Witches looked sexy, not scary in their lipstick, eye makeup and fishnet stockings. None of the get-ups I saw would make a girl feel as though she was going to conquer the world, save anyone or win any athletic contests.
Picket Fence Post: Meeting Puppy Criteria
Mon, 08/31/2009 - 9:00amThis whole getting a family dog thing didn’t quite work out like I imagined it would. Adopting a dog has, like parenting, become a lot more complicated than it used to be. You need a lot of patience, a fierce sense of humor and friends who’ll tell dog shelters that you’re not an axe murderer.
Picket Fence Post: My Most Recent Hero Wears Glasses and Has Wizardly Charms
Sat, 08/01/2009 - 9:00pmLast summer, I acquiesced to my twins’ pleadings to dive into the Rowling series with them. Surprised to find myself so captivated so fast, I plowed through all seven books, which, all told, amounted to more than 4,100 pages. Then I finally understood what all the fuss was about...
Ages & Stages: The Cleaning
Tue, 07/28/2009 - 10:30amThere is a moment after I rinse when I am able to offer up a tidbit about my own life. I feel this urge to communicate; in a way it feels like self defense. I mention something about our summer plans, a family trip to Canada. But the hygienist doesn’t seem to absorb this information; she continues speaking her own thoughts.
